NaMo Mantra- The Under current

The #NaMoMantra (youtube) at #Conclave13 is the most compelling news that rocked the intellectual India for the last one week. Every time Modi speaks, twitter applause it. This time also it is not so different.
From the day Modi did his first Google+ hangout, I became his fan. Not because he is Modi, but because he likes and made me to believe he works for my country. Later-on I came to know about the Riots in 2002. For me it was not a big deal. May be because I didn't lose anything in that riots. This is true for every Indian who has not experienced riots. Even if some one does consider riots, he or she happens to dig deep into those riots after watching the recent talks of Modi. Once they does it takes hardly five minutes to know the role of every one in riots and the after math vilification of Modi by media. I was neutral, but the way left liberals and congress leaning media, I had to take a stand.
 Modi was doing development from 2002. But I came to know literally few months back. That is may be due to my little interest about politics or may be my hatred towards politicians- whatever it is, it happened. Since I entered into the pitch I continue the battle on junk media and  pseudo liberals till now and I promise it will continue till I realize my wish come true.
The point I'm making this is that, whoever turn towards Modi, from my experience on Twitter comments and TOI comments, doesn't sit idle. Best example is myself. I'm 31 and so far I haven't exercised my vote in any election. I'm such politi-averse.  I see a lot of new entries joining twitter and TOI soon taking a side, towards or opposite to Modi. But I find time to time very little anti Modi comments but accelerated pro Modi comments.
So whatever the big crowd joining online every week, big chunk of it is going into Modi's bag, this is despite of Congress renewed efforts of budget of 100 crore rupees for web battle. This is of online. Offline, truly speaking I know very little. But as per the recent surveys, I came to know above 57% percent of people backing Modi  while 41% backing Rahul for PM. This was in Jan 2013. Things moved very fast from then. Modi addressed three popular speeches from then. SRCC, BJP conclave and India Today Conclave 2013. All three speeches are gems, if not diamonds. Waiting for recent opinion polls. If events are happening with this pace it will be nothing less than a hurricane for Congress and UPA allies in terms of devastation. Congress can reduce the devastation if it goes for early polls. The number of Modi fan following is growing time to time directly proportional to the people joining to web culture. This is my Today's analysis. Things may change in near future even beyond my assumptions. Let me see when should I come up with new analysis.

The questions should be answered by every taxpaying Indian to self...

1. The reasons behind the corruption and origins of corruption in Indian history
2. Is there any way to guess the future of India or a country having heightened corruption and other social problems?
3. For the sake of India’s success is there something to be done, which could accelerate the success of India?
4. What is the useful problem I need to invest my valuable time on?
1. The problem is only of India or some other broader problem
2. Is it should be certainly my own confined (personal) problem?
3. What would be the ideal way for my life? Is it being personal or social?
5. Shall I not worry about India or its corruption?
6. Shall I worry about my city/town/village or surroundings of my own city/town/village?
7. Shall I only confine to my personal growth, such as owning a house or multiple houses, having lot of money saved in bank accounts, having thousands of shares in lot of profitable companies, children education, their growth and moving to developed country etc.?
8. Why should I bother about politics of India and influencing them?
9. Why should I bother the tax I pay to Indian government?
10. Why should I bother projects and their implementation governed by the Gvt.?
11. Why should I bother the cost saving options on those projects? Is it because whether I pay tax and I and my children are going to live in India?
12. What if I don’t bother anything that Gvt. does?
13. Don’t I bother on my every spending? If yes, then why not on the money which I earn and pay as Tax? Is it not my investment on country?

How parents lose handle over their children during their growth?

 Time passed so rapidly and very seldom I came to know the news of my village and it's residents with whom I was in contact years back. Recently my father updated the news about his friends, neighbours in my village which I left approximately ten years back. The news was very interesting. One thing has struck me most, that many people whom I observed and had been classmates of mine have died in this ten years course. I was shocked and disturbed for few moments. It shouldn’t happen in that way but had happened.

The most disturbing thing was one son and a daughter of my father’s once business partner lost their lives few years after their marriages. One of them also lost their entire family including partner and a child.

When I was in my teens, it happened to be around these people for few years while I was doing my graduation. The father of these dead was a kind of person who looks for freely available profits. He doesn’t value values. If there is a potential something would be available with little bit of efforts, he catches that opportunity and will obtain it in whatever the least possible way. And those his chosen ways never happened to be morally correct. He was not a politician and he did not do big crimes. Only thing he does was use his surroundings, identify possible opportunities, identify some uneducated innocent fellow villagers who wouldn’t require sophisticated plans and tools to be cheated and finally gain profits within his efficiency limits.

How this all relates to death of his son’s family and daughter?

All this boils down to cause and effect or character driven results. Not only this objective person’s case. In everyone’s life, the nature of a person decides what s/he is going to do, how s/he perceives things and how s/he moulds her/his personality/character upon experiences. Character or characteristics of a person are not static. They change time to time at least minutely. Character is highly moulded in child age in the immediate surroundings. Parents are immediate and powerful control factors of a person’s character. If parent/s has an effective control on a child, the child would almost receive all the best qualities of parent/s. But the twist here is ‘whether the parent/s able to control their child during growth?’ And what is deciding factor of parent/s control on child?

Cheating is not a standalone characteristic. It is associated with few other characteristics and behaviours. Cheaters surname is lie. They have certain outstanding behaviours. They cannot stand on their oath. They cannot believe others easily. Their usual dialogue is ‘make promise’ or ‘I promise’. They doubt their partner their children and themselves too. They are afraid of even very small things. They are not strong guys. They usually feared and frightened. They cry. What not to say- whatever the behavioural scrap in the world lie with them.

To know how the bad qualities evolve please refer to... http://nalamara.blogspot.in/2010/09/corruption-not-bad-thing.html

Now it is our time to decide. How a cheater would have a strong control on their children and how those children will acquire good qualities in presence of their parent/s’ bad behaviour?

At small age child starts observe things. If all those things get aligned this child feels happy and grows in a pleasant environment. What s/he observe needs to be aligned with what s/he hears. If the parents are not doing what they talk and promise then struggle arises in the child. The environment where s/he grows is disturbed. Not only this, the house where this child lives no more a calm place. Every day there would be quarrel among parents. There the meanings of love and affection get corrupted. The child attracts all bad qualities. S/he would be misaligned in all aspects and become worse to his/her parents in all aspects.

This is not going to stop here. The people grown in this kind of corrupt environment are very poor in practicing survival methods. They cannot strongly face the problems that occur in everyday life. They cannot analyse problem in the way to obtain a solution. They think repetitively without coming to end and a solution. They deteriorate their mental abilities. Fear about life and suicide plans at the end.

I observed many times that the person and son quarrel and abuse each other coming on to the streets. Sometime later I also saw them fighting. After a ten year hiatus in information gathering, recently I learnt to know that the son in this story committed suicide recently. This was the news. So I think there is no wrong in using their example for this analysis.

In order to get hold of children first - one needs to control him/herself. Living a life is not an easy job. It cannot be as per the self convenience. Life is driven by some rules. Everyone should allow regulations in their life. If we control ourselves then only we think controlling others- whoever they may be- children, our family members, our subordinates or the fans who admire their celebrities or gurus. If we don’t find someone doesn’t has values we don’t respect him/her. Same thing is applicable to the children-parent relationship.

Potential Of a Person towards an object (POP)

Two topics came to my mind y’day.

One is the potential of a person towards an object (POP), which determines how s/he gains/attracts different physically measurable properties (Wealth, position(?) and fame(?)  etc.) from Nature. Second thing is how evolution happened in terms of sub-atomic bonds and behavior of sub-atomic bodies, which is presently not in our interest.

Coming to the point of interest… the POP…

The assumption behind the thought of POP is that the person who deserves to get something valuable (many dream to get) should get that one, but not others. We see a lot of people these days who are professionals in the areas they liked or they educated. There are people who earn money effortlessly and they are people who earn praises effortlessly. There are people who made lot of scientific discoveries regularly and there are big guys who kept on won wars against their counterparts. There perfectionists in music, drama, martial arts and so on. Many of them may not perfect at others’ areas of perfection. Now the question is what determines this area of perfection or in other words what makes them to deserve what they are getting with as ease, which is for others a difficult task. Can this phenomenon be attributed to a quality or a characteristic feature of a person? Is it the right way to research in this manner?

In simple words, there are a bunch of people who earn money enormously throughout the life. They only get profits. They may get losses or failures but those are minute. They kept on earn as if they born to earn.

At the other end there are the same number of people who born only to spend the money. These are supposedly the successors of the guys who are in above paragraph. These guys may not know how to earn, not at least as effective as their elders did. A few are there only to eat, some are to read books, some are there to get name and fame and many are there to attract their opposite sex. The effects of POP should not be confused with hobby.  Hobby forms based upon what the person wants. POP brings what a person deserves regardless of whether s/he desires it or not. The desire doesn’t do much without building/having the POP. Many people blindly desire few things and make lot of trials for them, offer many prayers to God, do whatever they think right way to get through. But those attempts are pointless and baseless and yield nothing in return if the desired thing doesn’t fit to their situation.  This phenomenon applies for positive aspects negative aspects equally. If someone has to be defamed it will be done eventually.

Now the question is… Is this so called POP is genetically acquired thing or it can be acquired with practice? The answer from me now is… yes it is both. Both ways it is correct.

We can get an idea how to build this potential, if we observe the characteristics of the people who have individual POPs. For example if we observe the people who earn money easily, we can observe a common property among them is ‘quick reaction or smart move’. No hesitation to do something. Ready to change if a situation demands. Looks like selfish or self oriented. Someone, who’s desire is to earn money, needs to build these things first. Not exactly these things but what s/he feels are helpful, by observing the quality of people who successfully earn money, to earn money.

One kind of POP necessitates or initiates another POP in the same person. These kind POPs can be termed as mutually inclusive POPs or simply MIPs.  There are some exclusive POPs too. One POP necessitates another to go off. These POPs can be termed as MEPs (mutually exclusive POPs). The recent story of M.S. Dhoni provides a best case to be studied to know about POPs. Dhoni might have not thought some day he would become this rich. He built up his batting potential, then mind management. He gained a potential of managing his team to success. That’s it. Either he desired it or not, he achieved the success, the win, the world cup. There is another POP, silently came in… the wealth. He might have not anticipated at once. This POP surrounded him automatically. That machine works for many years without much fuel. He received fame too. More than that name! Later POPs. Several POPs in association… only with one initiation… Hit it hard… don’t care… anything less than that… a kind of self belief, self motivation and self promotion.

A strong belief, don’t look sides. Everything is there to serve you. Let everything serve you. Don’t go behind them. They follow you. Create that environment. Search for the things that will work for you. 

On the concept of God…

In philosophy not many big minds has touched the concept of God. A few are with God and a few differ with God.

We like a person who suggests us and who guides us for our own benefits. We like who cares for us. If someone is there to look at your every problem and give timely solution what would you say about him? Someone who studied you pretty enough to correctly guess every moment of yours on each occasion and he knows how to mould you. And he also looks for higher good.

What you think he does to you?

Every one of us likes to have someone like him for us. Don’t we?

I’m not seeking help for what I can tackle with. I only seek guidance for what I don’t have enough experience/skill to tackle it.

You know how your kid behaves at certain situations. You don’t allow him to do the things which are not ought to do. You want him to grow with values. You don’t want him to grow having bad habits.

While you grow you may know certain good habits those benefit you in a big way. You record them. You live with them. If given a chance you may also let others follow your way. You may try to bring them in your way. If you find that encouraging others in order to lead quality life is best thing you can do in your life. If you know the best way to get others in your way and you have that skill. You obviously deliver the same.

You are having a skill to see future. You know how the things are going to be. You certainly know what you will be after death and how everyone will be. You know what is good for everyone and what extent you can do for them. It is even better if you know how to see and mould others after your death if it seems to be required. If you know all of these things you do what necessarily to be done for the benefit of all.

…..

In this case what should I call you?

I don’t hesitate to call you God. I don’t think a God can do more than this. More than this is not required.

Think you are still evolved. You know everything. What’s best, what life is and what everything is. You look at everything as you know everything. There is nothing which hurts you or which puzzles you. You look as everything goes smoothly. You know it is happening as it is to be. You don’t interrupt anything as you don’t see anything wrong in anything. You experience it you enjoy it and you are immersed in it.

In this case what you are called?

Still God? Higher than that? Or nothing?

Or Paramatma?

I like this manifestation.

Group dynamics…not physics but of life...

In current day ever changing world one cannot stay so long (a couple of years to couple of decades) either at a place or in a group. Group in the sense a bunch of people who has almost same kind of way of life, thoughts and approach towards others. Group may be a bunch of close relatives, neighbors in a village or society or a team at a company. The group dynamics are addressed well if it is said about a group of friends. A group of friends cannot be made (it may be bit harsh, in less tone- it cannot stay so long) if most of the members are not in tune. At a point of time all the members may be in tune but later differences may arise. At first the differences may be overlooked or hidden. But in regular interactions the members would explore deeper and deeper and bring out more about others. Once they start realizing the reality it would become clear what would be their next movement. The movement may either lead to stronger relationship towards other group member/s or it may lead to move away from the group in destructive manner. The differences may be of any kind ranging from behavioral to geographical. For example a job change may demand a person to leave his/her group.

This Figure shows how evolution or migration happens from group to group

The group has other side too. Group can be constructive. The movement happens towards group too. New members may join a well established group. Sometimes it happens to modify thyself to fit in the group. So learning is also an active part of the group life. A group may evolve as a whole and can upgrade (degrade in destructive mode) itself into a new position. Some of its members may not catch up the group’s phase and those are drag behind or they move to a group which is fit for them. Few individuals or a small group may evolve much faster than the mother group and they may join a hygienic group.

A passport to a group doesn’t restrict to join other groups. One person can be a member of several groups. Those groups may be same kind or different kinds. This person may act as a resource transporter from one group to another.

This figure depicts that the Groups can be n numbered, groups within groups are possible and most of them are interlinked.

The study of the group dynamics may take our stress away. It is obvious to move one group to another. The detachment phase may be painful but cannot be avoided. Positive mindsets would lead to bigger and bigger constructive groups. The bond among the group members would be stronger. It is a desire. It is highly sought objective. But in reality it cannot happened in our desired way. Group dynamics is group dynamics. They go as per their nature. Groups form, evolve, exist, finally disintegrate to provide material to newly forming groups.

This phenomenon is not only true for human groups. It is valid for any kind of groups and scenarios.  i.e., Animal groups, behaviors and beliefs etc. It may also true for material objects such as planets, stars, atoms and sub atomic particles etc., but we have to wait until it is proved in this case.

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Among my eight posts so far, 'When can I say 'INDIA is leading the World'?' attracted more viewers and subsequently  Corruption - Not a bad thing, Futurology and Orderliness, Julian Assange made United States half naked (which looks bit offensive towards US, but in reality what I exactly wanted to say is even a super power cannot go beyond Nature's control), Again...something about prediction and evolution , Life... a highly complicated phenomena.... and  Role of prediction in life attracted viewers. It gives me immense pleasure to keep up my writings and share with you. Please post your comments of any kind, so that I can improve the writings and my thinking as well.

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Again... something about prediction and evolution

Knowing everything would be a difficult task. But guessing something as certain thing would be the resultant of particular task or of a chain of tasks is theoretically possible. Defining 100% of the exact world shape exactly at 9am tomorrow would be impossible task. But guessing what would be the result if someone behaves in certain way is possible task.

Assume a world with limited people, say seven members, with their duties decided for valuable life and they achieved 100% predictability for their environment for about 100 years. They also know about their successors and they even know their death dates. If they further know about their afterlife… then…

What exactly is there for them to worry about?

They are professionals in living life. They live life with high precision. Their lives would have defined at each and every second. Then what is the difference between them and machines?

Is it in that way?

It can’t be. Humans may not face that situation at any point in their evolution. Even at that level they may face uncertainties in guessing higher level cause-effect relations. By that time they may have to think off the future of entire humanity or the then the important aspect.

Julian Assange made United States half naked... but

US made itself  fully naked.... What US doing presently is what any normal humiliated person usually does. The subject person behaves as he lost his/her own mind. The politicians and some big minds of US are acting in the same manner. Forget about  whether Julian is a traitor or a freedom fighter, it hardly a matter. But, at present it is matter whether US is doing right or wrong, whether US's is only show off at other Nations or it is doing things mindfully.
It is sad to say but US was exposed to all as playing cheap tricks ranging from conspiring an individual to cheating big Nations. US is experiencing the heat of humiliation that what it did for many (individuals and nations).
When one manipulates others and maintains secrecy having known those things will demand huge price when they were exposed, but with high level of confidence, it doesn't matter how much time passes on. But, if those secrets are exposed suddenly and in worst case the effected might have not expected the consequences.... imagine how every second passes on.... literally miserable....
This is the phase currently US is going through. It is the Nature, which has the final say in every aspect... it doesn't matter whether it is US or a poor dirty person.
US may forbid Julian Assange and Wikileaks now for some time or permanently. Julian is a small and poor fellow. He acted as a minute channel among millions and billions of wide channels.A simple lay man knows, how to stop Ants and he does it doing by blocking the neck of their home. He doesn't assault each ant individually. If he is little bit clever enough he doesn't keep sugar or eatables freely available. If he is clever from other side he destroy the Ants colony. Every one looks for root cause in the way their character defines.
The US also needs to look in this way. Intelligently and wisely. Grasp the key learnings. Assess situation. Act wisely. Don't act differently at different places. Keep one word. If it it requires to play games, play safely and play for higher good. For nasty games don't keep records. Keep in mind some other Julian may come in a future day which is not that far.

Life... a highly complicated phenomena....

... in many ways. From cellular composition and evolutionary point of view to every day problems and individual aspirations... Life is so complicated. Many Sages and Philosophers  in their writings and speeches tried to explain the nature of life and the best way to live.But either due to ineffective communication or due to ineffectiveness in their logic, caused still many to live troubled life.
Some may, once thought, why they are living in the way they live. Some might have identified on their last day that they have almost fulfilled their desires and aspirations what they thought to be. Some might have found that they did no significant act their life.
Every one thinks at least once in their life time.... What is if there at all, the best way to live? Whether it is the right question to ask for life? If not, what is the right thing about life, to ask, to search, to live, to find or to invest our time in?
Earning money and pride are big aspects of life. That is all? No. It seems building thyself is the right thing to do. Acquiring the qualities and potential. If one concentrates on only these two, rest, whatever assumed to be great for life would come to him/her automatically as the potential doesn't stays too long without being neutralized.
Money, name and fame - everything comes if she or he deserves it.
What if a person without potential gets a lot of wealth?
It is simple. That wealth no longer stays. Within no time it will be attracted by potential receivers who really deserves it.
Almost all Indian and other sacred texts reveals the same in one or another way.
Now building up the potential and acquiring the qualities are issues. Potential depends solely on qualities, so we only need to worry about qualities...
And this is not a simple task. Without quality all other trials are strictly use less. They yield a big zero finally.
Complications in life will go away with in-situ or acquired qualities. Complications will arise in acquiring qualities. The sole purpose of life is only to acquire qualities, in my view and for now. Searching, experiencing and observing others experiences constitute the life. And these will result in qualities. They matter at the end (By the by, by saying quality I mean here only good quality. In my view there are no bad qualities).